Why interfaith marriage in India is getting dangerous
Citing archaic "anti-conversion" laws, right-wing Hindu groups are working to prevent marriages between Indian Hindus and Muslims. Some couples have faced violence and death threats.
Interfaith marriages in India have been a sensitive issue for many years, with authorities and Hindu right-wing organizations disrupting weddings between Hindus and Muslims under so-called "anti-conversion" laws.
In one incident two years ago, Indian police stopped an interfaith marriage in the northern state of Uttar Pradesh despite the consent of both families. Before the ceremony could begin, a police team intervened and stopped the wedding, following a complaint by a local Hindu right-wing leader.
In India, most marriages are still arranged by families. Inter-caste and interfaith marriages are looked down upon and considered taboo in many places.
In extreme cases, families have attacked or even killed couples for falling in love or trying to marry someone outside their religion.
India's 'anti-conversion' laws
At least 8 states, including six governed by the ruling Hindu nationalist Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP), have passed anti-conversion laws that ban religious conversion solely for the purpose of marriage.
Last month, in the western state of Maharashtra, the government formed a 13-member panel to investigate interfaith marriages in the state and maintain a record about couples and their families. Last month, the Vishva Hindu Parishad (VHP), a hardline Hindu group, launched a nationwide public "awareness campaign," claiming that Hindu women are being caught up in "love jihad" and illegal religious conversions. "Love jihad" is a derogatory term used by the Hindu right wing to describe an alleged phenomenon where Muslim men lure Hindu women into marriage and conversion to Islam. Hindu groups claim, without evidence, it is an organized conspiracy.
VHP national spokesperson Vinod Bansal claimed the alleged practice was a "heinous form of religious conversion."
"There is a strong need for enactment of a stringent central law to check 'love jihad' and illegal religious conversions," Bansal told DW.
How marriage becomes a crime
Asif Iqbal, co-founder of NGO "Dhanak of Humanity," a platform to extend help for interfaith couples, told DW that many of them live in fear of their relationships becoming a criminal offense under the current attempts at legal reforms.
"Prevailing legal and social situations have effectively decreased the number of interfaith marriages," Iqbal said.
"Interfaith marriage has always been challenging in India, but the discrimination and threats of violence now make the struggle to assist such couples more difficult than ever," he added.
In the last decade, the NGO has helped over 5,000 couples of different faiths, castes and communities come together. However, Iqbal said there has been a sharp decrease in the number of couples coming to seek help.
"Couples have to leave their state to get married in some other state where religious marriage is not a crime," he said.
"Moreover, the police and the judiciary in many states are not ready to help couples and sometime don't offer protection," he added.
Living in an atmosphere of fear
Amid heightened communal tensions in recent years, interfaith and inter-caste couples in India face bullying, harassment, familial opposition and even death threats.
Since the BJP was elected in 2014, tensions between Hindus and Muslims have become more polarized. The introduction of anti-conversion laws are indicative of the rise in Hindu nationalism, say activists.
"The laws are an intimidatory tactic against minority communities. Now, even the special marriage act registrations for interfaith marriages are a basis of harassment for young people," lawyer Malavika Rajkotia, who focuses on family and property law, told DW.
India's special marriage act was enacted to validate and register interreligious and inter-caste marriages and allows two adults to marry through a civil contract.
However, couples have to wait for more than a month to register their marriage, allowing time for harassment from disagreeable family members and authorities.
To counter the hate and bigotry directed at interfaith couples, married couple Samar Halarnkar and Priya Ramani launched the "India Love Project" on Instagram in 2020, which rejects religious polarization and celebrates interfaith relationships.
"In a country that is increasingly criminalizing interfaith love, the project became a space where differences are cherished and cheered. Honestly, it's a bubble of love, a safe space in a toxic landscape," Ramani told DW.
The right to interfaith marriage in India
Indira Jaising, a senior Supreme Court lawyer who has worked extensively on this issue, told DW that in the last few years, India has seen the enactment of specific laws targeting interfaith marriages.
"An individual actively 'adopts' another religion when choosing to marry a person from a different religion under that religion's personal law. This, too, is a freedom that is guaranteed under the constitution," Jaising said.
She added that the laws are liable to be challenged on grounds of violating the Indian constitutional guarantee to practise freedom of religion.
"Laws barring marriage through religious conversion run afoul of India's foundational value of secularism," she added.
According to the Indian Constitution, citizens have the freedom to "profess, practise and propagate" religion. The word propagate also includes the citizen's right to convert.
Last week, the Supreme Court began hearing two public interest litigations challenging anti-conversion laws passed in several states that seek to prohibit religious conversion by marriage and make it mandatory to give notice of conversion to the state authorities.
Edited by: Wesley Rahn